Saturday, February 13, 2010
One of my many happy Brides....
Friday, February 12, 2010
A brief history of the garter toss.......
A brief history of the garter toss ...
With all the talk of garter tossing, I found this little piece of info amusing ...
Tossing the wedding garter is an old time held tradition. It is said that in the days gone past, the bride and groom had to show proof of their wedding consummation. In order for it to be proven, it was common tradition to have people like family and friends come into the room with the couple. The "witnesses" would obtain the garter as "proof" of the consummation. Also having any article of the under garments was considered to be good luck so sometimes things would get out of hand in the newly wed's bedroom as crazed onlookers snatched at clothing to get for good luck. This was not appreciated much by the bride nor many grooms, hence the groom started tossing the garter out so that no one would need to obtain it themselves. Because of modesty, this tradition has been modified and moved from the bedroom to the reception. Now today we have the traditional garter toss, which is meant to bring good luck to the man who catches it. He is said to be the next one to marry. In some cultures the men stand and wait for the garter to be tossed. Other cultures they actually compete for it. The men may compete for the garter in a foot race or by horse (this is a medieval practice). At least it is better than having the men chase the bride and put her upside down to get the garter off... This is what used to happen! In yet other places, they even auction the garter off. As strange as these twists on the wedding garter tradition may sound, it's all just a tradition. Take it or leave it... or should I say "Take it or Toss it! "
With all the talk of garter tossing, I found this little piece of info amusing ...
Tossing the wedding garter is an old time held tradition. It is said that in the days gone past, the bride and groom had to show proof of their wedding consummation. In order for it to be proven, it was common tradition to have people like family and friends come into the room with the couple. The "witnesses" would obtain the garter as "proof" of the consummation. Also having any article of the under garments was considered to be good luck so sometimes things would get out of hand in the newly wed's bedroom as crazed onlookers snatched at clothing to get for good luck. This was not appreciated much by the bride nor many grooms, hence the groom started tossing the garter out so that no one would need to obtain it themselves. Because of modesty, this tradition has been modified and moved from the bedroom to the reception. Now today we have the traditional garter toss, which is meant to bring good luck to the man who catches it. He is said to be the next one to marry. In some cultures the men stand and wait for the garter to be tossed. Other cultures they actually compete for it. The men may compete for the garter in a foot race or by horse (this is a medieval practice). At least it is better than having the men chase the bride and put her upside down to get the garter off... This is what used to happen! In yet other places, they even auction the garter off. As strange as these twists on the wedding garter tradition may sound, it's all just a tradition. Take it or leave it... or should I say "Take it or Toss it! "
Monday, February 1, 2010
Brides Ball
Brides Ball
Regardless of your marital status, The Bride's Ball is giving men and women of all ages and marital status a fabulous reason to feel like a king and queen for an evening. Almost every woman wants to wear her wedding dress again. The Bride's Ball offers the perfect opportunity for women and men to experience a night they’ll always remember, and support a great cause. The evening is open to everyone, brides and single women. Brides get the chance to re-live the magic & memories without the stress. Single women get to see beautiful gowns first hand on real women. Fun for everyone!
There will be door prizes, auction items, entertainment and on-site portraits and video.
There are endless opportunities to give back, either by attending or by sponsoring The Bride's Ball. You can donate money, sponsor a table in your name, or even sponsor a portion of the evening such as the photo booth, the favors, or the invitations.Two Upcoming Balls, come to one or both! The first one is in New Bern in October and the second one is in Greensboro in December. Stay tuned for more details.....
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